OVERCOMING GROWING UP WITHOUT A PICTURE IN YOUR LIFE! - UPDATED

This is a discussion about overcoming beliefs, formed and developed because of the existence of a vacuum around certain events, please follow, which is updated to add a Footnote.

Growing up with the idea developed that you weren't wanted by a parent is a difficult picture with, which to be confronted,
and when formed in the life of a developing mind, can often lead to becoming dimmed and daunted.
Then instead of a bright and cherry disposition,
this can lead to the building up of bitterness and the walls of a partition.
However, when finally confronted with an account, which challenges the belief formed that this was not a deliberate path that was chosen,
by one who simply wanted to leave the journey he traveled a better place for those who weren't embolden.
but one determined by an ex who chose to be silent as the best way to handle division with a former, who definitely wasn't connected to "Chong Hoben" or even Beethoven,
and who didn't want to appear to be one to "stoop" to providing him with such
knowledge that could appear to be a means of closing a divide in a outlook that once appeared all golden.
Even though many a discussion most likely took place within this chant,
"Mar... the True Believer" would have firmly objected to any input from one she fondly referred to as " Aunt".
With this backdrop, its the sincere hope that the "optimistic" disposition of that "True Believer",
can find its way into the life of one to bring reconciliation and healing from this Appealer* Footnote.
where uncertainty and despair could have found a home in the life of one who simply had no picture and didn’t know what was the case about one who for all she knew, didn’t care enough to a “healer"!


* Footnote:
To find avenues to assist one who was inadvertently overlooked, ways in, which her three siblings could be helped were considered. As a result, the possibilities considered and made available include to the first, the potential to become a product designer as defined by the TECHNICAL COORDINATOR - INVESTMENTS PRODUCTS position, to the second the possibility to become a skilled analyst as defined in the role of PRODUCT TESTER/COORDINATOR and the third, the possibility to become a communications operator as defined by the role COMMUNICATIONS CONSULTANT. Each of these positions are unique to the individuals and can be either pursued and success gained by each of the siblings depending on their abilities and interest in achieving possibilities given a “starting block” from where each can use to make their mark and go on from strength to strength from the point of origin each will be provided with. In this way each is being given an opportunity to see what potential each one is able to achieve that can then be used to demonstrate in a meaningful manner to the one who was overlooked that they are able to make her proud to be the Mother of talented, skilled ladies who can achieve worthwhile goals when given the right type of opportunity and who are thankful to her for the adversities she overcame to bring them to the point to turn her sacrifice into notable achievement.  
 
James F. Brazant
“Appealer/Healer”
2/11/2015